In my experience, barring adverse life events causing them to return, if they have never truly left it's because they are immature and you must run the other way!
I have just wasted 2 yrs with a 36 yr old who still sleeps in his childhood cabin bed, mummy does everything for him and yes he is the stereotypical star wars/lego/comics/war games nerd. I am 29 and independent, with several previous boyfriends. When I met him he was a 34yr old jobless virgin. He now has a job (within walking distance of mummy...) but only pays his mother 150GBP out of a 1300GBP take-home salary. He counts every penny too; very tight. She does everything - laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping, bills, even makes his sandwiches for lunch every day.
This shining example of maturity split up with me by text a month ago while I was in a foreign country working for a few weeks. I had brought up the subject telling him how frustrated i was and how i wanted our relationship to move forward by getting engaged/moving in. He basically ended it by text and didn't even want to see me when i got back. two years in which we met each others families etc, last time i saw him was at the airport when i left for my assignment.
I was way out of his league and i wish i hadn't bothered. So when you ask me what I think of men over 30, indeed over 25, still at home my reply is - LOSER ALERT! RUN RUN! If there is no valid reason for him being there/no end in sight then you will never change him/persuade him to move out with you. I thought that. It won't happen - give up and walk away!
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